My hukam just reinforced and put the "spiritual" words on my feelings;
Without the Guru, love for the Lord does not well up, O Siblings of Destiny; the self-willed manmukhs are engrossed in the love of duality.
Please read the whole piece of the text here, it's truly beautiful and filled with love.
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